I got hit with the flu last Tuesday. I can pinpoint the moment it happened, so I know it's the flu and not a cold. For 5 days it was pretty brutal, but all things considered it could have been much worse (for example, unlike some folks with the flu, I was not on life support or dead). The worst of it was the unbelievable pain in my lungs and chest. Then for a couple of days I woke up feeling a little bit better. This morning, though, I can barely stand up.
I don't know why I'm feeling so dizzy. I stepped on the scale and found that I'd lost several pounds. I feel nausea with accompanying waves of overwhelming anxiety. I'm shaking like a mad person and feel absolutely horrible throughout my entire body - and a little scared that this might be more than just the flu.
Anyone have these sorts of symptoms with the flu? I'm in an area rampant with both the seasonal and swine flu variations, with verified cases of both, so it could be either of them (or either of them with something else). I've got a doctor's appointment for tomorrow - anything I should ask him about that I can't think of right now? I've checked online for symptoms and they vary WILDLY so I'm wondering if anyone has info to share.
Please keep your fingers crossed for me... I'm working on a freelance assignment and while dealing with this flu I've still been able to indulge in the joys of a home office, but I can't afford to be flattened down sick right now. I hope that you and your loved ones are healthy and can get the vaccine for both flu versions this year! Wash your hands and cough in your sleeves!
xo
What's the oldest article of clothing you own? Bonus points if you show us a photo!
If by this you mean the oldest piece of clothing that is mine and worn by me (not antique clothing), then it would have to be my giant blue sweatshirt from high school - it's a Coconut Joe sweatshirt.
It's the only piece I have left. I would have had more but I had a zen-like purging of my closet not long ago, getting rid of cheating boyfriend's concert shirts and other assorted items from decades ago. Never mind that it's all just crap taking up space, who needs to look at stuff and be reminded of how shitty people can be?
Considering I was wearing maternity clothes right up until a few years ago (and my kids are no longer babies) then it's pretty embarrassing to even admit having saved this ancient stuff in the first place. I have new clothes now, I've lost a huge amount of weight, and I'm happy to rid my house of bad juju from people who do not wish you well. And in this new house my closet is a walk-in and HUUUUGE, so no need to have anything bouncing around in there that I don't want to see. Even my storage areas are happy places :)
Car ride. Big storm front seething at our destination, sun behind us, rainbows to our right. We go on these trips in the evening to get out of the house, drive along the lake, see the country roads. The kids get boisterous and loud and that irritates me, but I know looking back on these trips I'll only remember that it was nice family time.
I've had bad luck with sunglasses this year. Husband sat on one pair his first ride in my new car. Second pair I picked up and the lens fell right out of it - the bottom was completely cracked open. I'm still mourning the loss of those ones. Third pair is so scratched up that I can't see a damn thing out of them. I was so desperate for sunglasses I stopped at Shopper's and grabbed the first two pairs that didn't make me look like an aged blind person (you know the ones) or a sticky-faced toddler on their way to a blowup pool.
My oldest daughter wasn't there when I bought them, though, so this trip was the first she'd seen them. "I really like your new sunglasses, Mum," she pipes up from the backseat. "They look like sunglasses my French teacher would buy."
This cracks my husband right the hell up. He decides to get sarcastic. He starts laughing and says, "Well, you know your mother actually IS a French teacher, she's just undercover."
So my daughter, from the back seat, instantly begins singing... she begins writing me a THEME SONG.
French teachers,
Undercover...
BONJOUR!
I swear to all things holy I don't know how I get through the day sometimes.
Wow! I can't believe I haven't written a single thing since February and it's now coming to the middle of August. I can't make excuses and say that I've been so busy that I just didn't have time to write. That would be a lie. I've had time. I just forgot about this place. I really did. The only reason I remembered was because I got a Vox Talks(I think that's what it's called anyways) email. I really do want to start writing here again. I just have to remember it, haha. Anyways, I guess if you are reading this then you are wondering about the title. Bryan and I found out about a week ago that we are expecting a baby. I'm about nine weeks along and the baby is due March 17th. We weren't really trying but if it happens it happens. And it happened. We are both so excited about this. Everyone at work is already trying to plan a baby shower. I still have a while to but they are all so excited about this. What's really crazy and is making it even more fun is that my best friend is also expecting a baby. She is ten weeks and her baby is due March 9th. When we found out we were so close we were so excited because we get to experiance this together. We've experianced everything else together and I guess we get to add pregnancy to the list, haha. Anyways, I know this is a big update or a long post but I just wanted to let you all know what was going on. :)
I have a lot that I want to talk about, and that's why I'm not doing any writing.
Writing just seems like the story is so one-sided. It's not.
It's the way of the Internet: you write what you want, and it doesn't matter if it's true or not, and then people stop by to stroke you and say It's okay honey, we still love you. Although mostly Its ok hunny, we still luv u as if that could be the same thing. It's not.
I could be writing about nothing, and get flak for it, from someone who should know better and yet still doesn't have a clue. I could be writing about other things and not realize that other people have a side, other people who will never read it and anyway couldn't care less. I could be writing about things to piss people off; or to soothe them, to show I don't mind, to manipulate and weaken. I could be writing because I don't want to get involved in any more bullshit. Any or all of these reasons, more of them still, are why I (or anyone else) could be writing. I don't want to write, though. I want to talk.
But talking hurts. Hurts more than any writing, which seems impossible, but it's true. Writing would mean I would have to start at the beginning. Talking would mean picking up where I left off.
It might sound like the same thing. It's not.
I am still using the Mystery Meat setting on my iPod, and not all the way through sampling every song on there. I don't have everything I want on there yet, but what I do have keeps me pretty entertained. So on the way back and forth to the office I hook up the thing to a crappy radio adapter, and sing along. Loudly (as if you didn't know already).
First one on the list this afternoon was one of my own songs. Listening to it, and realizing that I was the person who wrote it, I decided that I'd go with the idea I had for a new site redesign and start on it right away. You can only let procrastination win for so long before it becomes boring, and you become stupid. Now to find a flattering photo to use... good luck and godspeed on that one.
Next was Stewart Copeland's "Strange Things Happen". I had been in the middle of pre-ordering his unreleased book by this same name last night before I was foiled by a glitch on the website, so I was actually heading home to complete that order before my computer packed it in and lost my shopping cart.
I know a whole bunch of folks who are even more thrilled about the release of this book than I am. They have probably already predicted what strange things have happened in the story. After Sting's rather sparse (read: non-gossipy) account of the band's history, and then Andy Summer's more rambunctious joyride through his Police memories, I'm wondering if being last to tell the tale has its merits.
And Stewart talks the way other people write. You can never be sure just what the man will say -- you know it will be absolutely unfiltered, and chances are it will be surprising. But while other people take some time to think up clever answers and spend time thinking about what they are writing, and what they SHOULD be writing, and the best words to say it with... well... that stuff just comes rapidfire right out of his mouth. With no thesaurus-thumbing and really no thinking gap at all. There's barely a chance to really take in the full meaning of what he's just said before he goes on to something else. I'm amazed and impressed with this ability because I've never met anyone like this in my entire life. I wish I could think in words that quickly. But because he talks like other people write... what is he going to write?
Anyway. I've just now finished my pre-order of the book, along with a second readable copy of Andy's "One Train Later" (the autographed one from Luminato is now untouchable). Like the rest of us, Stewart's put out some questionable stuff (and I'm willing to take my licks on that from the nutters -- plus I'm first in line to showcase some of the really horrible songs I'm forced to take credit for myself) but this book is going to be something to really look forward to and devour no matter how it turns out. And there's always the chance of a booksigning tour :)
Would you ever want to be a model? Why or why not?
I actually was a model. Once. It was such a terrible experience that I refused to ever do it again.
I got to dress in all sorts of really neat clothes, but it was the kind of show where the models walked among the seated guests. And these guests simply reached out and touched the clothes, ostensibly for rubbing thumb and forefinger against the fabric to check out texture and content, but it was creepy as all hell. I had no warning at all, they never spoke, there were just hands clutching at me and I was uncharmingly yanked back as if I were a trophy fish, free to move again only when they released me. My instructions were to mingle throughout the room and keep my eyes lifted above everyone, and for God's sake, smile. It was like walking through a forest in the dark, where the trees reached out and grabbed you. I absolutely hated it -- their quietly snide comments, their scrutiny, their unseen hands snatching at me, my skinny teenage body being used as a way to sell someone's overly priced merchandise.
I finished the gig and I got the hell out of there and I never looked back. I was asked to model many more times after that (well before I got chubby from having my kids, during my long-gone days as a flat-chested rake). I don't care what the money was like or how many cool clothes I could have collected, or any of the other things that could be said about the career - I only remember their eyes, and how I felt so lonely avoiding the look in them, and how disgustingly edible their scrutiny made me feel.
I'm much, much happier being a programming, classical-music composing, plump nerd than I ever could have been as a clothes pimp. I am 100% sure on that one. I'm glad there are people out there who do it, and I'd be happier still to know that they enjoy it, but that is one career that is just not for me.
Last Saturday, my husband and I went to Toronto for "Shadow Notes" to hang out for an hour with some famous photographers. One of them happened to be Andy Summers.
The photography panel was made up of Andy, Danny Clinch, and Ralph Gibson (gently moderated by Robert Enright). It was held in the Jackman Hall at the Art Gallery of Ontario, a part of the huge Luminato festival, and it ended up being very intimate and jovial. The theatre was cozy and dark, and there were maybe 100 of us in the audience. The staff had prepared slides of each photographer's work and these were projected above their heads during the entire discussion.
If you aren't into photography (or famous photographers) then you might expect the whole discussion to be completely dry and about boring stuff like f-stops and other slang you have to be a shutterbug to know about. I adore photography and I had no idea what I was in for -- the topics ranged from celebrity photos to zen koans to why digital sucks and everything in between. The three of them were great panel guests and would have been equally entertaining if the topic had been burritos. I was impressed by their willingness to share tips (how to get into concerts to take photos) and what drives them to do what they do (if they don't, they'll go insane).
Andy Summers told his "Every Breath You Take" story, defended digital photography, and explained how he made lists of things to take photos of when on tour with the Police so he wouldn't forget to record everything. One of the audience members (Bruce, who happens to be a friend of mine) asked him about how he views the 'ordinary' now and they all discussed how they see things differently than most people. Andy can take a photo of a bowl on a hotel bed and get art... the rest of us just think "housekeeping!".
Danny Clinch had the most amazing aura, he told some fabulous stories and after the event was over he walked out the front door with a clump of us, to catch his daughter's recital. Ralph Gibson was definitely more traditional in his views and topics and gave a very interesting perspective on digital photography (comparing it, somehow, to using the phone). The moderator participated only to direct questions and he was splendid, letting everyone talk and laughing along with the rest of us.
After the discussion there was, of course, books offered and my husband met all three photographers. He managed to get all of their autographs as well -- neatly stored upside down on a back page of Andy's "One Train Later" book -- and I got an incredible shot of him meeting Andy Summers. Andy's smile was so genuine. And then they rushed Andy out the door, because he is after all Andy Summers, and we collected our coats and books and headed out into the sunshine.
The whole bunch of us (well, almost all of us) met across the street for pub fare. One of the art installations started -- a very loud audio and video decent into hell and fear, apparently -- and was truly a disturbing backdrop to both digestion and discussion. But it was great to hang out with nutter friends again, and dish about book covers and ex-girlfriends and why I embarrassingly can't remember that one guy's name. And then my husband and I walked down to the open-air photo exhibit, giant photos from the panel mounted on freestanding structures among the throngs of people in Yonge and Dundas square, to take photos of the photos (and take photos of me with the photos of photos -- or something).
This weekend is the last of this year's Luminato festival, and if you can make it down to the Harborfront Centre you'll be treated to a free Cirque du Soleil concert. We're going to go if the weather holds... if you're going to be there too, let me know :)
Today is Repeat Day, so we want to know: what song do you have currently have on repeat? Bonus points if you share it with us!
This morning as I drove into work I put my iPod on "Mystery Meat", which basically means I scorn any pre-made playlist I've made and just set it to "Songs". It's the first time I've done so in a very long time and I didn't even skip over any that came up. I was treated to Beastie Boys, Francois Dompierre, a few of my own songs (out of the hundreds I have loaded two of my own came up, probably as a reminder to clear them out), Andy Bell, The Ramones, and Flight of the Conchords. Then Stewart Copeland's (officially Klark Kent's) "Away From Home" came on. I've heard it LOTS of times, probably more times than my kids could stand hearing it. At my house, my Blackberry doesn't ring... my kids say, "Mum! Your phone is making that Stewart Copeland sound!" But I hadn't heard this particular song lately as I have two of his other ones on my favourite playlist instead, and for some reason this morning, it was like I was hearing this song for the first time.
I was laughing hysterically, so much so that I think the car behind me was calling the men in white jackets with giant nets. And I had previously passed her because she'd almost gone right off the road, so you know SHE wasn't in her right mind to begin with, so who was she to judge?
Anyway, I'm huge into the bonus points thing (even though they mean nothing) because I'm a big nerd and need all sorts of external approval, so I've uploaded it to share. I'm not sure it you'll find it as entertaining as I did -- certainly not enough for me to want you to cause any car accidents -- but it's an awesome track and fun to listen to while sipping locally-roasted coffee and trying not to eyeball some death rays at fellow commuters.
Show us your wristwatch.
Yes, they are doing what you think they are doing. And they do it glowing in the dark, too.
Oh, and it gets better: tap the watch and both hands collect at midnight, and then swing together to a random position.
Talk about a conversation starter...
